Homily for Thursday of the 19th Week in Ordinary Time Cycle II
Theme: SEVENTY-SEVEN TIMES….. “Lord, how many times must I forgive the offenses of my brother or sister?”
By: Fr. Joan BLADÉ i Piñol
Homily for Thursday August 13 2020
Today, asking «how many times must I forgive the offenses of my brother or sister?» (Mt 18:21), may mean: —These persons I love so much also have their little ways and whims that bother me; day after day, they pester me every five minutes; they do not speak to me… Lord, how long am I supposed to put up with them?
And Jesus answers with the lesson of the patience. Actually, both colleagues coincide when they say: «have patience» (Mt 18:26-29). But, while the intemperance of the wicked one, strangling his companion for a few silver coins, provokes his moral and economic ruin, the king’s patience, while saving the debtor, his family and his goods, magnifies the monarch’s personality and generates the confidence of his court. The king’s reaction in Jesus’ words reminds us the Psalm that goes: «But you are willing to forgive, so that you might be honored» (Ps 130:4).
Evidently, we have to oppose to injustice, and energetically, if at all necessary, (otherwise, it would be a sign of apathy or cowardice). But indignation is healthy only when there is no selfishness, nor wrath, nor any nonsense, but our straight desire to fight for the truth. The authentic patience brings us to put up mercifully with contradiction, weakness, inconveniences, unreasonable persons or events. To be patient is tantamount to dominate oneself. Susceptible or violent persons cannot be patient because they neither take their time reflect about anything nor can they dominate themselves.
Patience is a Christian virtue because is a part of the message from the Kingdom of Heaven, and it is forged on the experience we all have defects. If Paul exhorts us to put on a heart of patience with one another (cf. Col 3:12-13), Peter reminds us that the Lord’s patience offers us the chance of salvation (cf. 2Pet 3:15).
For, how many times has God’s patience forgiven us in the confessionary? Seven times? Seventy seven times, seven? Maybe more!
Fr. Joan BLADÉ i Piñol
(Barcelona, Spain)